Mental health awareness month: let’s talk about depression

Remember: people diagnosed with Depression are usually smarter than the average person, they have a better perspective of the world and they see situations more realistically.

 

Depression is not what you think.

Depression is not romantic, it’s not a thing that you can heal with a kiss, it’s not photos in black and white on Tumblr, it’s not a thing that makes you feel proud of it and you want to show it  to everyone. Depression destroys your brain and you can barely notice that because you are more concerned on your problems to see that they’re really destroying you . It’s a process that never ends and makes you sink in a sea of nothing. It’s not laziness, it’s not sad songs, it’s not an excuse.  Depression can make you lose contact with people, can make you want to be dead, to not be a weight for the world. Depression is not eating for days and then eat all the fridge, it’s not showing for days, it’s the frustrating feeling of desperately wanting to have fun but you just can’t because there are a lot of thoughts buzzing in your head and you don’t know how to stop them. There are like two, three, four voices that are all talking in just a moment, saying a lot of things that destroy you in 0.05 seconds. Depression can make you feel lonely, useless, a failure, a problem for you friends and for you family because it makes you feel so weak and you don’t want people to see you broken. Depression make you seem normal even if you’re living in the hell and few people can understand it and they went through this hell as you. It’s knowing you have to study for an exam, to clean your house, to talk with people and just not doing it, it’s not being able to sleep, it’s no concentration, it’s feeling exhausted and what about the suicidal thoughts? Remember, it’s not just feeling sad, it’s something more, something that I hope it happens to none.

Scientifically talking, depression can bring a lot of symptoms like headache, stomacache , gain loss or gain weight. Your immune system is weak and you have more possibilities to get an heart attack and the level of dopamine and serotonin is increased. The areas of your brain litterally stop working and it starts to fuction in another way that is different from the initial one.

What can cause depression:

  • A traumatic life event ;
  • Relationship breakdown ;
  • Financial difficulties ;
  • Bullying.

There can be also genetic factors that can lead to bipolar disorder.

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Let’s talk about number: 154 million people are depressed and 900,000 people commit suicide every year.

A 2013 study made by the University of Queenslad  shows just over 4% of the population is diagnosed with depression, which is the second-leading cause of disability in the world, after the heart attack. The middle East, North Africa, Eastern Europe and the Caribbean are the saddest places with 5% of the population being diagnosed. The results may show an unrealistic percentage in Asia, where there’s a taboo around mental health that causes people not to seek help.Cattura.PNG

With depression comes suicidal thoughts. You will thinks it’s better die that live this for another day. Suicidal warning signs are: talkig of being a burden, acting impulsively, feeling excessively guilt or shame,  feeling of being trapped, feeling hopeless or helpless, lack of interest,  increasing of alchol or drugs,  changes in eating or sleeping habits, talkingof wanting to commit suicide, changing personality or mood swings. Suicide prevention line: 1-800-273-TALK(8255).

It’s known that people with depression are usually smarter than the average, have better perspectives on the world and see more realistically. Famous people  who suffered of depression are J.K.Rowling, Emma Thompson, Jim Carrey, Charles Dickens and Lincoln.

Remember that being depressed or just mental ill is not a shame and you have to seek help immediately.

STOP THE STIGMA.

-Stefania

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  1. Felicia Denise ha detto:

    EXCELLENT article! Thank you for sharing this information on a subject that is still too easily ignored.

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    1. No one ha detto:

      Ohh thanks!πŸ’“ Yes I can’t stand this ignorance anymore.

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      1. Felicia Denise ha detto:

        You’re welcome! πŸ˜‰

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  2. Felicia Denise ha detto:

    L’ha ribloggato su Nesie's Placee ha commentato:
    Depression is not to be taken lightly. Someone, somewhere on this planet commits suicide EVERY FORTY SECONDS! That’s over a million lives lost a year – and most of them could have been saved! Are you listening?

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  3. Lita Anaya ha detto:

    THIS IS AWESOME. You put my feelings into words just perfectly. I’m Asian and I completely agree that mental health is such an unusual thing here. People dont even know what depression feels like and how would it affect someone’s life.

    In Asia, in my country (Indonesia) 3,7% of people committed suicide every years. I’m sure it’s because most of people still consider mental illnesses are like exaggeration things. People would say “You would rather talk to me than talk to your psychiatrist. It’s such a waste of money.” I don’t understand why do people let themselves stuck inside of this ridiculous stigma and keeping themselves away from the truth. Having mental illness ain’t easy and people are just making everything worse.

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    1. No one ha detto:

      Awe thanks!
      Someone should start a rebellion…

      Mi piace

  4. eliza rudolf ha detto:

    Well βœ’ pennedπŸ‘Œ

    Mi piace

    1. No one ha detto:

      Thanks 😎

      Mi piace

      1. eliza rudolf ha detto:

        Yr welcome😊

        Mi piace

  5. shooting star ha detto:

    Absolutely right! Beautiful post… πŸ™‚ U nailed it πŸ™‚

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  6. Laina Eartharcher ha detto:

    I love that you’re talking about this stuff. It’s a conversation that needs to be had. Bravo to you for doing it! πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ

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    1. No one ha detto:

      Awe thanks πŸ’•πŸ’•

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      1. Laina Eartharcher ha detto:

        You’re entirely welcome! Well-deserved πŸ€—πŸ’œπŸ’™

        Mi piace

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